Perfect Guidance System

Within You Leads You

to Enlightenment

Learn how to use it, now!

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You have an inherent system of guidance

within you that will allow you to:

• Discover your Personal Truth

• Review and update your Personal Truth

• Choose behavior that is consistent with your Personal Truth

• And encounter the lessons you need to learn in order to realize Higher Consciousness

• And eventually, Enlightenment.

 

It is said,

"First, you must be true to yourself!"

But no one teaches you how to be true to yourself, until now!

Think about your own history: You went to six or seven years of primary school. Then you went to another six years of secondary school. Perhaps you continued with four years of college. And if you went into a profession, there were another two to five years of graduate school. With all of this mental education, involving history, mathematics, language skills, sciences, and technical skills, where did anyone teach you the skills needed to connect to yourself and to know yourself, let alone how to be true to yourself?

Public or private education teaches you mental skills. Religions teach you spiritual skills. Parents, medical services and athletics teach you physical skills. Where do you learn how to be true to yourself? And yet, wise advisors throughout the history of man have repeated, “First, you must be true to yourself!”

It should seem obvious that there is something missing in our preparation for life. There is a fundamental assumption about the paramount importance of certain abilities, the ability to know yourself and to effectively use this self-awareness, but no one teaches you the skills that enable you to do this.

Is it any wonder then, that most people in the world are lost in terms of their life’s purpose, their ability to connect with others and create intimacy, their understanding of the “big picture”, their ability to deal with life’s dilemmas, and the values they practice day in and day out?

We are going to explain what these skills are and how you can learn them, but first let us tell you how this powerful realization evolved into this book.

As professional psychotherapists for over thirty years, we have worked with people in widely varying states of health. In psychiatric hospitals and mental health centers we worked with people who were struggling to hold on to a predictable reality. Their genetics, their biochemistry, their horrific history, or their destructive addictions led them into a reality that was painful and constantly changing. In crisis intervention centers we worked with individuals who felt hopeless despair as a result of their condition or the situations in their lives.

We worked with students in colleges and universities who really wanted more life skills, but could only find more mental skills. And in private practice, our clients often struggled with the major decisions and prevailing conditions in their lives, wanting to make their lives consistent with their values of happiness, self-worth, responsibility to family and community, and desire to further their own growth. These are the factors that brought us into contact with several thousand people whom we helped, at all levels of health.

Some people first needed to reaffirm a common reality. Others needed to clear away some of the consequences of their previous unconscious choices. But in every one of these settings, without exception, we found that people needed to know more about reading the messages that were being given to them by their inner being. They needed to become aware of their emotions and the signals their bodies gave them.

While helping each client settle the situations and conditions that caused their distress, we also helped them confront how they factored into the cause of their experience. What choices did they make that helped bring them to this point? At what point did they turn toward this experience, instead of having turned toward a different experience? How could they have seen the consequences of the choices they made, and what consequences could only be recognized in hindsight?

Every individual was eventually confronted, in this way, with the obvious conclusion that they helped to create the reality they live in. This is a critical point in therapy. The client either accepts the responsibility for being a creator of their experience, or they close down to this awareness and reject responsibility. The key factor, then, about whether a person was ready to learn the skills they needed to be effective in his or her life was one thing: Are they willing to accept responsibility that is theirs?

Those who closed down usually went away from therapy at this point. They really did not want to see or know about anything that may be their responsibility. In this way, they could remain a victim and claim all of the attention and privileges that come with it. “Sure,” they reasoned, “there may be some pain involved.” But they would rather continue with the pain they know, than do the internal work needed to change their lives, with the emotional discomfort they may potentially need to go through in the process.

These people inevitably created an endless circle of crises or dilemmas that caused ever-greater emotional pain. This cycle continued, and will continue, until the potential pain of looking at themselves is feared less than the actual pain of continuing their unconscious patterns.

For those who were willing to recognize the responsibility that is theirs in creating their previous world, an internal light went on. They awakened. They began to see that life is not a random series of events, but rather, a series of consequences of previous choices. They perked up, and they began to ask questions about themselves. They wanted to start learning about their dynamics (patterns of emotion and behavior), so they could see how they created the rest of their world, too. It was a period of excitement for most clients. They longed for more insight, more awareness, more understanding.

This was when we usually started to explain the nature of emotion and offered new models for self-understanding. We taught new emotional skills and new relationship skills. Gradually, we introduced the concept of levels of consciousness, and explained how each new level realized, allowed them to create their world in a different way. And we taught the client about the lifetime pursuit of Higher Consciousness, and how this is the road to Enlightenment. Over the years, we developed this unique style of counseling, naming it “Consciousness Counseling™.”

The most obvious cause of emotional pain and discomfort for every client was their lack of emotional skills in seeing, understanding and effectively working with every experience. After being educated in basic emotional skills, they were able to take greater responsibility for creating what they truly wanted in their lives.

Each client found that these new skills, although not individually awesome, collectively were steadily changing their lives in predictable and desirable ways. Their self-awareness was growing. Their relationships were becoming more fulfilling. Their sense of purpose was getting clearer. Their ability to effectively use every experience was increasing. Reality itself, was changing for them. They were realizing higher levels of consciousness.

We also found that we were repeating ourselves with each new client who awakened. We said the same things, over and over, to hundreds and hundreds of individuals who first needed to learn basic emotional skills.

It became so routine for us that we created a book for our clients to read. This is how Feeling Your Way Along came into being. And while it does not teach advanced or really advanced emotional skills, it does allow someone, after awakening, to begin their inward journey, in order to make their outward world reflect these changes.

Everyone needs these skills in order to deliberately pursue Higher Consciousness!

“Being true to yourself”

is the essence of Personal Growth!

In fact, Personal Growth depends upon

being true to yourself!

You must learn how to be true to yourself!

We know the void of emotional education. We have seen it in thousands of individuals. And we have seen how these skills, once learned and practiced, make profound changes in someone’s life.

Now, you can learn them, too!

There are key skills that enable you to know what is right for you.

It does not matter what is right for someone else,

they have their own lessons to learn in life.

What matters is that you always know what is right for you.

There is a way to know what is true for you, to see what you need to do for yourself, to live your life with power and self-assurance,

and to be able to stand up for your truth.

Learn how you are

the creator of your life,

and how you can create

what you truly want.